I can’t believe how fast this weekend flew by. Seriously. Is there a way to slow time down just a fraction? Because I’m still not ready to get on a plane and head back to Chicago.

Wednesday was a blur-I spent most of the day packing, but I managed to squeeze in Mass so I could get ashes. (Did I mention I decided to give up sweets for Lent? More on that later) Our flight actually left Chicago on time (shocking, I know) and after a rather uneventful flight we landed safe & sound in Pittsburgh. And we were stunned by the amount of snow. Stunned.

Thursday afternoon we met with our florist and finalized wedding flowers. My florist is awesome-she’s a family friend, so she would honestly tell me if any of my ideas sucked/wouldn’t work/whatever but she was really excited about my ideas. Of course we threw in some gossip in there too. Chris was bored out of his mind. Poor guy. Later we went to our food tasting. We semi-finalized the menu (Filet Mignon or Chicken Piccata) and came up with the Big Day timeline.

Friday was House Hunting round #2. Let me start off by saying Friday did not start well. We arrived at the first place and were walking up to the property to meet with our realtor and I FELL ON A PATCH OF ICE. RIGHT ON MY ASS. I guess falling isn’t enough of an embarrassment because I spilled my starbucks all over myself, AND ripped my new North Face  jacket. Luckily no one saw me fall, but I had reminders of my klutziness all day long in the form of down feathers escaping from the hole in my coat and my ass hurting so bad I could barely sit down. We managed to check out a few more properties after that, none we were totally jazzed about.

We threw in a quick cake consultation and tasting at Creations by Carlini before taking a break.

The fact that I got to enjoy Mad Mex with some of my favourite ladies made my night a million times better.

We talked about pretty much everything-Lent, jobs, buying houses, and BOYS. I’m sad I’m leaving a lot of my friends back in Chicago but having these ladies here in Pittsburgh make me feel a lot better about it.

Saturday morning I got to have cake for breakfast! I set up a cake tasting at Bethel Bakery for 10am. I don’t know what I was thinking, but I was probably pumped about being allowed to have cake that early. And the cake was delicious. We decided to go with them for our wedding and we’re thrilled about it. We made a quick trip to Shadyside so Chris could meet some of his new coworkers and I popped into J Crew and bought a sweater & necklace (I couldn’t help myself!!). My family came over Saturday night so we could finally share the big moving news with them. I also found out my future husband and father to my future child(ren) has no idea how to pick up a baby. While it was slightly terrifying, it was mostly hilarious to see a toddler ask Chris to pick him up and Chris going “What do I do?”

Yesterday was pretty chill. Finally a day where we didn’t really have anything to do! Chris flew back to Chicago last night so sleeping alone was lonely. My brother & I went to see Shutter Island together and his friend gave us the Senior Citizen discount-sweet! I thought the movie was great even though the actual plot was kind of predictable. I would be the worst movie reviewer because I thought the movie was awesome but I don’t really know why. It may or may not have something to do with my childhood crush on Leo (I’m talking pre-titanic/Romeo & Juliet days).

Tonight I fly back to Chicago but not before I do some more house hunting. With my Dad. God help me.

So how was your weekend??

Okay guys, are you ready to be let in on what’s been going on?

Good. Because truthfully I can’t keep it a secret much longer:

Chris’ transfer came through. We’re moving to Pittsburgh!! In 3 weeks!!

Obviously part of me is ecstatic and excited and all of those happy emotions. I’m going home. I get to be around my family (and not just once every 4 months). I will be able to drive over to my mom’s house and call her out on being “too busy to talk to me” (I know she’s not). I won’t have to struggle to plan a wedding from 450 miles away. I will buy my first house and it will have a yard. (I don’t care how small it is, just the fact that it’s there) I’ll have a car again. And before you know it, Chris and I will start having babies galore.

(Kidding. Maybe one, and after the wedding)

But with all the happiness comes the sadness & stress. I am truly sad beyond words about leaving the friends I have here in Chicago. If it weren’t for them I wouldn’t have made it here. While I won’t miss the CTA and the charming characters that ride it, I will miss my relatively quick commute. I will miss the beach and the lake. It didn’t hit me until I found out we were actually moving, but Chicago grew on me more than I realized.

I guess it was always a possibility in the back of my mind that someday I would return to Pittsburgh but I wouldn’t have guessed that it would take only two years to come full circle. Life’s funny that way.

Image c/o Toothpaste for Dinner

Yesterday, the ever-so-lovely Jamie tweeted me this image. The day before that @AmbienRehab started following me on twitter.

I don’t know where I’m going with this post, but I know I needed a good laugh today. The bakery I really was hoping to use for my wedding cake is closed the week of my wedding. After that disappointing news, I received a $300 bill in the mail from my dermatologist. I think it’s just a mixup with my old insurance because I have an explanation of benefits from Aetna saying they paid all but $50 of the claim, but still. Seeing a $300 bill that I wasn’t expecting felt like a punch to the gut. I hope I can get this all resolved on Monday, otherwise this girl is gonna get stabby.

I have yet to see the ambien walrus, but apparently I know of a My Little Pony chef that is going to make a special wedding cake for me. Yes, I apparently told Chris that I would prove to him such a thing existed and was sold at Target. I just hope he never decides to film my ambien escapades and put it on the internet.

But seriously, I would pay a crapload of money for such a thing if it truly existed.

ps. Don’t forget to check out Pham’s video so he can become a super awesome Fiesta agent!

Today is my blog’s second birthday! I can’t believe two years have already came and went.

I know I haven’t been posting much lately. I’m not going to apologize for that. There have been a lot of things on my plate right now, and blogging seems to have taken a backseat. That being said, some days I really do miss it. If it weren’t for starting this blog, I would be missing out on making some really amazing friends. I wouldn’t be a member of 20SB. And I certainly wouldn’t have found your blogs to read. I’ve had many life changes since starting this blog and I don’t think I would have kept my sanity (mostly) without it.

So thank you. To everyone who reads this blog, and to everyone who I’ve found because of blogging. Cheers to two years and hopefully many more!

I got your attention with that title, right?  (no there is not a fiesta in my pants, sorry)

So I was gchatting with my crazy awkward blog buddy John (who we all know and love as Phampants) the other day and he told me about this super awesome project he and his friend Karen had been working on. Basically he and Karen are on a mission to become Ford Fiesta Agents, which means Ford gives them a brand new Fiesta for the duration of the contest and sends them on fun missions. (It’s actually a really cool social media campaign-my friend & I planned on entering last year but…yeah, that kinda fell apart). The cool idea that John & Karen have is to get “missions” from other bloggers/youtubers.

In John’s application, he mentioned he was a member of 20SB and Ford apparently didn’t know what it was (I know, right? Aren’t we all famous bloggers by now? ..I kid). So in order for him (and Karen) to have a shot at getting to be agents, us 20SB’ers have to rally together to show them not only that John would be totally kickass at their social media campaign but to show them what 20SB is all about-community.

So how can you help out? All you have to do is watch the video below either here or on youtube. Easy, right? I don’t have any special giveaway for helping me (and John) out by doing this, but I will shower you with hugs for the rest of your life. And maybe cupcakes.

*Disclaimer-I am NOT getting anything from Ford or anyone else for posting this. I’m just trying to pay it forward by helping a friend